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2025-02-07 19:13:24

AITA for telling my SIL to get over herself and stop trying to one up us

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INFO: at what point was an actual conversation had about these comments and what your SIL- another new mother- might be experiencing. You say she “apparently” felt this and that. You assign a specific interpretation and meaning to those feelings. Are these really accurate?

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Thanks for your perspective as a preemie parent. My wife definitely felt the comments were PA.

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I would love to hear the SIL’s side here too. Is she really trying to “one-up” or is this just a very ungenerous interpretation from OP of another new mom trying to feel like she matters too. Two new babies, two new moms. One of those pair had a much more dramatic and tougher start and I will put money on that influencing how each were treated. I say that as a preemie parent myself. My kid got sooo much more focus than a cousin (unfairly!) due to the circumstances around their birth. OP should ask themselves and be honest- is SIL really being a competitive witch or is she also a new mom wanting equal care and attention for her baby too? It’s tough when one experience overshadows another in the family, especially when both are big life changing moments.

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I guess my wife and son got more focus at first when they were hospitalized, but from what I see in family gatherings at least my in laws give the cousin plenty of love and attention. They definitely enjoy playing with him as he's more "interactive" and communicative than our son (which again makes sense when you take corrected age into account)

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