What to say to people

At my 12 week scan, they said although the NT was high it would probably end up fine and gave us the encouragement to start telling people. My daughter told her friends because she was so excited. Within weeks we were given the bad news and we’ve decided to go ahead with TFMR. Obviously the good news started to spread and I’ve started to get congratulation messages from the parents at school.

Wondered how you told people that you don’t know very well, did you thank them and keep the sad news quiet, did you tell them about the bad news, did you not comment on the situation?