Hand Tattoo Regret

Hi everyone I just got my hand tattooed today and while it’s beautiful and exactly what I wanted, I’m feeling a lot of regret. I don’t know if it’s because I need to cover the snake head with it and then just have her add the head to underneath the butterfly or if it’s because it’s a big piece right in my face, or maybe it’s too new but I just feel this sadness/regret. Maybe all the people saying “tattoos aren’t lady like” is just replaying over and over in my head and this feels like a more manly spot for a tattoo?

I’ve felt this way a couple times while working on my sleeve and it’s always gone away so I’m hoping this will too 😭