The Volunteer theory does not always make much sense

I have seen so many Starseeds cry for home and express how hard life in earth is. I am part of that group. You would think that in order to volunteer to do anything, you must be both qualified and prepared. And seems that many souls are far from being able to stand this harsh 3 D and the callousness of the very humans we are supposed to save. Why would any soul step into such a suicidal mission. I use the word S because we all know that many have struggled and struggle with dark thoughts. Why would anyone end up in such a situation if volunteering is really the correct theory? Did we think we could do it and overestimated ourselves? Were we insane or have we been lied to? The funny part is how other so called starseeds want to force others to accept this theory and be fine with their very rough fate here. Whatever it is, absolutely noone can prove that they came here accepting all the trials they were presented. I am not sure we are forced to believe the more New Age theories more than we must believe religions. Ultimately it can just be another theory.