FTM and confused. Am I doing something wrong?

FTM to a 13 week old baby, whose sleep usually goes like this:

  • 8am - 10am awake
  • 10am - 11am first nap
  • 11-1 awake
  • 1-1.45 second nap
  • 1.45-3.30 awake
  • 3.30-4.30 third nap
  • 4.30-7 awake
  • 7-7.30 cat nap
  • 9-10 asleep, will wake and need re-settling
  • 10.30pm-1.30am asleep
  • 1.30am first feed
  • 2am-5am asleep
  • 5am awake but is not hungry, resettling time
  • 5am-8am asleep but will awake again once or twice

Am I putting him to bed at the wrong time? I’ve tried putting him down at 7pm when he takes a nap - not having it.

I’ve tried multiple bed times in between 7 and 10.30 - not having it. Always wakes up an hour later.

We use white noise, a sleep sack, completely dark room, shhshing. He will settle to sleep either by feeding or occasionally a pacifier.

Am I doing something wrong? I am dying from the multiple wake ups.

Thanks for any advice