What the 1% Guys Get Away With
There was a guy that was part of my friend group when I was growing up. The dude was a 6 foot + Chad which every single girl in our friend group had a crush on, even in the adjacent friend groups, every single girl had a crush on him. He was good looking and he was rich, had a nice car, a nice crib and was a decent guy to the guys in the group. He was the biggest misogynst and asshole to women that I have ever seen.
He eventually took turns messing with every girl. One of the most brutal stories is that one day he randomly decided to ditch a girl in our friendgroup 120 Miles away from her home and just fuck off in her car. He then vandalized her car and the next day acted like nothing happened and so did she. He did it for no reason whatsoever, just cause he knew he could get away with it. The dude beat up another girl in our friend group which would later be his girlfriend which he would beat up again when they were together. She never made any legal complaints. This other girl, he literally painted her hair with paint which eventually caused her to go bald. These were all college educated girls (which isn't saying much by today's standards tbh).
Years later these girls are still asking about this guy, which is beyond me. I am happy that I have acknowledged this tho. I can just see that even if the life of a young woman is made literal hell by a chad, she will still choose him over you every single time. There is no point in trying to compete. Dating is cooked, if one of these dudes comes along its GG.