iOS Guys Who Self Host

Hey all, I am still new to the S/H game, and so far I've only lightly experimented with stuff.

I've been on Samsung phones since 2016ish, but I do enjoy my iPad. My wife is all Apple, the kids have ipads (and iphones /apple watches for the older two.)

I like the family sharing and screen control elements that I have on my iPad, and I'm about to need a phone upgrade from my S21.

... I'm kinda considering Apple this time.

Are those of you self hosting with iOS phones getting decent app support and generally having a good experience? Is Android definitively better in this case?