29M & 27F – What green flags helped you realize someone was worth a second date?

Red flags get all the attention, but let’s talk about the green ones—the signs that someone is worth a second (or third) date!

Here are five green flags I always tell people to look for:
✅ They listen and ask thoughtful questions.
✅ They communicate their needs clearly.
✅ They respect your boundaries without hesitation.
✅ They’re consistent in their words and actions.
✅ They make you feel comfortable—not confused.

Which of these do you look for first? Or do you have your own personal green flag? Let’s hear it!

I love seeing how people define green flags differently. If you’re curious about which one's matter most for long-term compatibility, I’m happy to chat!