"People w/BPD need support!" Yeah right 😤

Why do therapists/media/articles online suggest people with BPD are just victims who need support are just acting out from a place of pain?

It's so frustrating googling about your BPD abusive parents only to get stupid articles advising you on how to support them.

It's like.. umm that's actually the PROBLEM! my BPD mother made me her emotional support animal for my whole life. The answer to to STOP BEING SUPPORTIVE.