Why do single men label themselves as incels when they aren’t?

Single men need to stop labeling themselves as incels.

If you’re a single men who’s not single by choice, but doesn’t hate women, doesn’t feel entitled to them, doesn’t have any ill or harmful feelings towards women etc please stop labeling yourself as an incel. You are not an incel, you are not apart of them, just stop. You are a man who is single, and that single life isn’t making you hate women. I’m tired of seeing posts of men admitting they are incels but they claim not be misogynistic, guess what? Then you’re not an incel. Don’t represent a group of hateful men if you’re not a hateful man.

Also, feeling sad about being single doesn’t make you an incel. If that sadness turns into hate and violence against women, yes and that’s wrong. But relationships are normal to want, that’s just society. I’m a woman and I have been a little sad about being single at times, but I don’t hate men. That’s weird, a whole gender isn’t responsible for my dating life. So I’m not going to label myself as a femcel.

Just stop, don’t try to be a loser when you aren’t. Incels are losers, single men are not. I’ve met many single guys who aren’t losers just because they’re single. Being single doesn’t mean you’re a loser. Just say you’re involuntary celibate which yes I know that’s the definition of an incel, but incels have turned into a hateful bunch and you shouldn’t want to associate with that word.