My restraining order expired and my abuser is trying to re enter our lives I’m panicking
I’m very panicked. My abuser fled the state shortly after I got my restraining order on him. Moved to another state and got a different partner and did the same thing to her, she got him arrested and bailed him out and then he fled that state and went on to marry someone else. He and I have a 4 year old. My judge was hesitant to give out permanent restraining orders so she continued to give temporary restraining orders for almost 2 years. He was out of state not even trying to be in my daughter’s lives and it was such a fight that I stopped pushing for permanent restraining orders. This morning he texted me on his mom’s account saying he’s permanently in my town and wants to see our 4 year old again. Im panicking. I don’t think I need advice but I know how he is and I am afraid he will try to bother me. My husband is on deployment and not currently able to be with me, I’m pregnant and my abuser hurt me while I was pregnant so my ptsd is triggered and to others it might feel like “just block him” to me, it feels like Michael Meyers’ prison bus crashed and now he’s on the loose.