I am so done with Muslim community infantilizing men

This is so frustrating. They take all responsibility away from men and load everything on us, women. We have to cover up, even in high temperatures because we need to be protected from men (I don’t believe hijab is mandatory), we have to hide ourselves because men can’t keep their eyes off of us. We have to avoid talking with men, showing our hair, not going out as we want, not traveling alone, being criticized if we look strangers in the eyes, BECAUSE MEN ARE LITTLE BABIES WHICH NEED TO BE PROTECTED FROM US. “Sister/ukhtu astagfirullah ewewewew” I am really so done with such talks, always preaching women how to walk, talk, act. Oh and the worst part? They claim women get good deeds and are righteous if they obey these things. I even hear this from my own Muslims friends and female relatives. “Because Allah made women special”. Yeah? Allah loaded everything on women?

Why is no one holding men responsible for their acts?? They only need to “lower the gaze”? Really, that’s it? We must bare everything because men are so dumb they can’t control themselves? Well, maybe Muslim men are like this because WE TEACH THEM EXACTLY WHAT I WROTE ABOVE. Maybe because WE DEMONIZE WOMEN AND MAKE MEN LOOK SO INNOCENT SO WOMEN GET ATTACKED ONCE THEY DON’T WANT TO COVER THEIR HAIR OR HIDE THEMSELVES.

What’s even funnier is, men are so gullible YET they give women instructions about everything lol. I thought they are little poor kids who can’t control themselves, so how come they have the right to tell US what to do if they even don’t have basic human competence to act like normal adults with responsibilities? I mean in this case, women sound like they are smarter and men are just dumb? (I don’t see men as dumb).