I hate how public our lives are in Desi families

Maybe some of you will relate to this. I noticed how intertwined and invasive our relatives are in our daily life. All of your uncles, aunts, cousins know what you're doing, your job, your failed business ventures. Personally, I feel exposed as a young struggling person. I'm trying my best but rishtadaaro ki baatain khatam hi ni hoti. They keep trying to step into my life and tell my mother what to do with me. It feels like your life isn't your own here. Every family gathering is awkward because if you're not successful, then they will try their best to break the little confidence you have left in you. Just questions...so many questions. Yeh kyu ni krty, wo kyu ni krty. Shadi kro iski, bahir bhejo isko, css kro.... just enough with that. Already itni depression hai ooper se itni public life hai k sab commentary dety hain. Am I alone in feeling that way?