Is it superficial to say I’m one and done because I don’t want to get fat anymore?

I had a great pregnancy and postpartum experience, but I gained 80lbs and now I can’t even look at myself in the mirror. I don’t feel like “me” anymore, and it’s really affected my confidence.

Whenever people ask if I’m planning to have another child, I just bluntly say, “I don’t want to get fat again.” I know that might sound shallow, but it’s honestly how I feel.

I love my child and wouldn’t trade the experience for anything, but I don’t think I can go through the weight gain and body changes again. Am I being superficial, or is it okay to feel this way?

I’d love to hear from others who’ve struggled with this or had similar thoughts. How do you navigate the pressure to have more kids when your own body image is a big factor?