Do your nparents always have the opposite opinion of yours?

For example I want to make a new haircut, a way different than I have now, and my nmum said her unsolicited opinion, that this haircut is the same as the one I have now and she wants me to do a different haircut. Like she wants to distort my reality and perception of things and also put her opinion over mine.

I mean...she has already done it in my childhood, now I'm recovering and can't stand her at all anymore.

Do they feel less miserable when they do those things? Do they feel they matter somehow?