Nmom doesn’t want me to eat at my own wedding (wedding planning rant)

These are all the highlight instances from the last year of wedding planning.

My mom started by inviting people on Facebook comments to my wedding!!! I had to tell her to stop and that she needs to run invites by me. She also insisted on 6 of her friends I’ve never met coming. At this point we’re up to 10 friends of hers coming who I don’t know.

She also insisted on coming with me to find a wedding dress. Where she complained the whole time about our specialist, hated all the dresses, and loudly talking about how I don’t care about her opinion.

She slid sheets of paper into our invites without telling us and sent them out. It was something about the hotel idk.

She is demanding that we do certain things that she wants like separate rsvp cards but when we said she couldn’t just plan the whole thing without running things by us she puts all of the work that she’s demanding on us. Then complains about how we took away something for her to do in her free time.

She keeps insisting that I DONT EAT at my own reception because she doesn’t like that I want a vegetarian option…..

Also, she refuses to tell the caterers my signature drink because she doesn’t like it. Not that she doesn’t like the actual drink, she does, she just thinks no one else will like it.

Im at the point I’m considering going no contact after the wedding. The only reason she will be there is because my fiancé insists I will regret it if she’s not.