This is exactly why using lesbian as an umbrella term is actually confusing the f out of everyone

People are becoming genuinely confused about what being a lesbian actually means. This person sincerely believes she's a lesbian even though she has a male fwb and views sleeping with him as "a treat". When the label describes literally anyone, no one actually understands what a lesbian is anymore. This makes me feel sad for young lesbians who will struggle with being misunderstood in a whole new way.