being an army in general k-pop spaces

nothing too deep fr but i ult BTS and am really happy to be an army, but unlike the new majority of army i am totally cool with the existence of other kpop groups/fandoms and even enjoy/find myself a part of them. so when i join these general kpop spaces (like this subreddit) i usually have no problem until i see random bts and army hate (not talking about this subreddit as far as ive seen). and finding other army in these spaces is HARD. the worst part is i can hardly blame other people for digs at army at least because especially recently army have been acting plain odd (i blame it on new army and the enlistment... rough times), but a lot of that hate manifests as hating BTS as a group or the individual members and i will NEVER understand the need to hurt each other through the very real people we stan.

anyways this was just a rant because its getting really exhausting seeing hate on my favs in general kpop spaces and having to leave or block out the space.

(for context, i mostly reside on twitter where creating a bubble is much easier and hate is tho PLENTIFUL its at least easily expected and easier to ignore)