Do Bengalis dislike their own mother tongue?

I'm living in Kolkata for almost 25years now, IT industry te achi 5 bochor holo ami onek din dhorei ekta jinish dekhechi je bangali ra jokhon i ektu bhalo restro pub ba mall e jay automatically english e kotha bolte thake.

Ami amar nijeder bondhu dero dekhechi relative der o dekhechi eta korte?

Eta howar karon ki? Amra ki nijeder mother tongue ke pochondo korina?