Observations of an Escort [F]

I've mentioned in the past that I spent a few years working as an escort. For those who wondered why, if I saw two clients in a week I would take home more money than I earned from my 40-hour fulltime job. I always get a lot of questions about what it was like, so I thought I would throw a few thoughts out there. I'd be curious if anyone else who has worked as an escort has similar observations.

In films, scenes with an escort usually show non-stop, passionate, sweaty sex that goes on forever. That happens maybe 2% of the time. The reality was much less exciting. In a 1-hour booking, maybe 15-20 minutes involved sex. The balance of the time went one of two ways:

• Blow & Go. Some guys had what I've heard called PNC (Post-Nut Clarity), and they either feel guilty, embarrassed, or "dirty", and want me gone ASAP. I never took this personally, and if they felt my job was done and wanted me gone, great. About 10% of my clients fell into this category.
• Post-Coital Cuddle. This was the aspect of the job that surprised me the most, at first. I realized that the sex act was a small part of why I was there, and how much more complex the interaction actually was.
  

I think to understand the Post-Coital Cuddle, you need to see the motivation of why the guys were hiring me in the first place. From a purely sexual perspective, the majority of guys were looking for something they weren't getting at home. I cannot tell you how many times I was told they wanted to go down on me, or get a blow job to completion from me, because their wives wouldn't do it anymore. Many times there was no vaginal penetration at all. I was simply providing something that was lacking in their sex life.

But what was more interesting was how many guys just wanted me cuddled against them naked while they talked. Men's wives (or children) stop listening to them, and they need to share their thoughts. I felt more like a therapist at many sessions, as I heard about their job dissatisfaction, concerns about their children, or how they felt they were just a wage-earner for the family. I still remember one guy crying to me about his dying mother, who did not get along with his wife. They could say things to me that their spouse or children wouldn't (or couldn't) listen to.

It made me realize that men are as emotionally fragile as women, but their societal roles often force them to hide it. But they can open up to the sex-worker because it is "professional" intimacy.

My takeaway from all this? Basically if women suck cock, let their men go down on them, and spend some time cuddling and talking, their guys won't be out looking for women like me.