Hobbies to meet men in their 40s?

Thinking about putting myself out there for dating soon. OLD (which I tried for 6 months in 2022) feels intimidating. I would love to meet 40 something guys in their natural habitat, preferably while doing something active. But not sure what that is anymore?

M girlfriends say to try sports leagues. Now...I am petite, never been an athlete and don't like the pressure of competitive sports leagues. Can't see myself playing basketball or soccer etc.

I go to Pilates and there is exactly one guy (someone's husband) in each class. Tried power yoga before and same experience.

Women - do you have success stories of meeting men while doing something active?