Why do fans hate Lilah

Genuine curiosity of why people hate lilah SO MUCH. In my opinion, from what i have seen, her bad behavior is similar to how tana acted not too long ago. That’s the reason tana and lilah were friends, right? They were in the same spot in life. Tana has come out and said they have grown apart and are different points in their life, but that’s only because Tana had calmed down her life. She also requested no hate towards lilah because lilah didn’t actually do anything to warrant hate. We loved tana at her worst and now we love her at her best. So why do we hate lilah so much when she’s truly just acting the way that tana did a few years ago. (which isn’t okay behavior, but i’m not sure it should warrant so much hate on her). I’d say the most negative part of this fandom is the hate train fans flock to whenever tana or Brooke say anything about anyone. It’s why they’ve stopped exposing people.

Just genuine curiosity on the hate towards Lilah. Did she actually do anything that awful?