Husband thinks 2yo is too old to breastfeed

34f My husband 36m has expressed quite a few times that he thinks our son 2yo is too old to still be breastfeeding. For context, he only breastfeeds before nap and bedtime to go to sleep and still wakes in the night to bf as well. My partner rarely wakes when our son does, so I just get him back to sleep. Our son was ebf, refused the bottle so I ended up taking on the night shifts and bedtime when he was younger as my husband was starting to get progressively more frustrated that he wasn't sleeping. This led to our son only wanting me for comfort and bedtime putting more pressure on myself to be the 'sole parent' throughout the night. I'm at the point where I am used to not getting as much sleep as I'd like (although I miss it, I would rather be there for comfort and not take that away from my son just for my benefit as I feel he still needs me). My husband makes comments like 'he needs to stop bf' 'he's 2 which is too old' 'he should be sleeping in his own bed' although I see where he's coming from I also feel like I have little to no support emotionally for my sacrifice and the physical tole it's taken on my body. I know his feelings shouldn't negate all my hard work, but I feel really isolated as I have no one to talk to about my struggles and on a societal level I already feel immense pressure to stop. I guess I only felt supported until a point and now it's obvious that I've surpassed the 'appropriate' time frame. I wanted to compromise and say we can ween gradually and gently throughout the night but I think he's more in the head space that we should just do everything in one go. Which is difficult for myself because I know I will be taking the brunt of the work. Am I in the wrong? What's the next step?

Edit: I feel like I need to add that my husband does get up during the night if I ask him to, he does do bedtime routine occasionally and is a very loving and supportive partner. He is also an amazing father to our son. This is just one area that we butt heads. Thanks for reading!

Additional edit as I've had so many amazing comments and suggestions. I think the overall consensus about my hubby's thoughts on bf was to nip that opinion in the bud - it's my body and we'll keep going until one of us is ready to stop, but that we should also have an open and honest discussion about devising a plan with his sleep. That being said, I should add a couple more points:

I am currently pregnant (first trimester) and I think part of my husband's concerns stems from fear that we will simply ✨drown✨ with both a newborn and toddler waking in the night.

People suggesting my toddler sleep in a different room and I can still bf, realistically wouldn't work as I'd physically be getting up to go comfort him instead of just rolling over in bed.

The suggestions of me going away for a few nights to leave hubby to sole parent throughout the night honestly scares me as he rarely wakes atm with our toddler crying right beside him. I'd worry he just wouldn't wake and my toddler would be up to all sorts of mischief throughout the house 😭

My hubs has tried to comfort our toddler in the night and he screams like a banshee, thrashes and then refuses to sleep. This isn't a 20 min ordeal, it's lasted hours. And not only is it not nice for our toddler and husband, it also pains me to listen to and cuts me deep in my sensitive mommy heart 🥲 whereas he falls asleep within 5 mins bf

My hubby wouldn't mind our toddler being in the bed if he slept through the night, but he is such a light sleeper he'd wake to a mouse's fart.