There’s no unity with South Asian (Indian) men

I don’t think that there is unity between East Asian/Southeast Asian men and South Asian men even though we may go through the similar struggles when it comes to dating. The reason why is simply because south asian men have been known to hate on especially East Asian men and I think this is because their jealous of our rise in popularity due to kpop. They only show us love when it’s beneficial for them but separate themselves from us when it’s not. Not to mention, the rise in south asian men that show off their fetishization of East Asian/Southeast Asian women especially online. I see this with the whole “Bay Area brown boy” stereotype and it’s crazy how they’re fine with blatantly showing it off. Additionally, I find it frustrating how this subreddit isn’t centered on East Asian/Southeast Asian men when South Asian men have their own subreddit. This is the only space that East Asians/Southeast Asian men have on Reddit. I have also been noticing a lot of racism and animosity towards East Asians on the SouthAsianMasculinity subreddit and it just goes to show that we are not allies. In their minds it’s completely okay for them to be racist towards us but we’re seen as the racist ones.