Had My First Time Last Night, Should I Text Him?

So, last night was my first time with a guy. Before meeting up, we didn’t exchange any pictures because I’m not really into that, and size isn’t a big deal for me (honestly, since it was my first time, I was hoping for something on the smaller side).

When we met, I saw that he was bigger than I expected (about 17 cm and thick), and I knew the night was going to be a challenge. Even though he used lube, it still hurt a lot, and at first, I didn’t feel any pleasure—just pain. Right when I started feeling good, he finished. Over the next three hours, he finished three times, and I think we both enjoyed it overall.

The thing is, he didn’t give me his number and said he’d give it to me next time we meet. Since I can be a little insecure, I asked him afterward if he was satisfied. He said, “Of course I was, otherwise I wouldn’t have finished three times. That’s a silly question.”

Later, I texted him to thank him for everything, and he replied, “I’ll text you when I’m free.” But he still hasn’t texted me. I know there are plenty of other guys out there, but I prefer to stick with one person and he was exactly my type 😭.

Do you think I should text him? Some of my friends said he’ll probably reach out again when he feels like it.