Feeling discouraged. Anybody relate?

U ever know/see this absolutely gorgeous woman (or insert person ur attracted to here) and you think how awesome it would be to date them and be intimate if u got to know each other and all that but u realize most people wouldn't wait for you to be ready/would not want a romantic relationship where sex is of low importance. Never mind if ur on a part of the ace spectrum where sex is basically off the table.

Yeah so I just feel discouraged bc what are the odds of finding someone YOU like, that likes YOU back, that's on the same page (a)sexually?