We broke up because of BINI
Problem/Goal: Me and my gf broke up because of BINI
Context: I consider myself a silent supporter/fan of BINI. I didn't buy merchs and never attended their concerts. I slowly started to follow them when they became trending and starting to be famous. First, I only listen to their music without knowing who the members are. I loved their music so I started getting to know the BINI members. When my gf knew that I became a fan of BINI, she was okay with it because at that time, I'm only interested in their music. Time goes by and they are really getting famous and I also started to be really interested with them. I started to have my bias and it's Sheena. I didn't know the term "bias" until I saw posts about their "bias" in BINI. Time goes by again and Colet got my attention because of her incredible talent and skills so she became my bias also.
So, at the time when I already followed them and always watched their vids on tiktok and liked the posts about them, my gf and I argued about it because she became jealous of them. One time, nabadtrip siya because I showed her a vid about them. We talked about it and she said that it's not okay with her when I talk about them. Then one time, we had a conversation about me being a fan of BINI and she said that they are really beautiful and she got insecured about herself. I said sorry and assured her that she's still the most beautiful woman in my life and then I volunteered to unfollow their socmed accounts even when she did not told me to do it. Time goes by, she told me that she's already okay with me being a fan of BINI and she's slowly accepting it so I got a relief. But sometimes, we would still argue about it. She said that why do I still admire their beauty when I already got a gf. Her point is valid and I explained that my admiration for them doesn't mean I love them the way I love her that I would cheat on her just for them. She doesn't understand me having a celeb crush because she doesn't have one. She tried to have one but she doesn't feel it.