I don’t want to adhere to my nililigawan’s non negotiables

Problem/Goal: I (m29) have a nililigawan (f26) that has non negotiables na gusto daw nya malaman ko before nya ako (or if ever) sagutin. I don’t want to adhere to them.

Context: 1) Doesn’t want me to go to parties. Okay lang daw it work-related. But beyond that, restricted.

2) Doesn’t want me to have overnights with my friends. I told her na puro lalake naman barkada ko, but she doesn’t seem to believe to believe that.

3) Doesn’t want me to play video games. Her reason is may mga times daw na may mga nag checheat dahil dyan.

She said she is saying na daw in advance para daw alam ko na mga ayaw nya if ever maging kami. The problem is, these are things that I do enjoy doing. I know for myself naman na I do these things because, ayun nga, I just enjoy doing them.

Previous attempts: For her, its for her peace of mind daw. Which I completely understand. I told her di ko kaya I-give up 100% mga yan, because I have been doing these things way back na, and its part of me, being me. Now, I think bumaba chance ko na sagutin ako because of this. I really do like her. It is just frustrating na I am losing my chance of being in a relationship with this woman because of these non negos.

For context lang, we have known each other for roughly 3 months pa lang. If that would help assessing the situation.

Just want to hear your comments on this lang. Thanks in advance!

EDIT: Thanks for the comments po! I did not think this would have this much engagement. Just want to clarify lang, She is an amazing woman. She takes care of her family and is independent. That’s why I said, it’s frustrating to lose her just because i can’t comply with these negos. Please stop with the hate po sa kanya 😊. My intention is to have some opinion lang and advices. The advices were mixed, but I think I have the answer na. Thanks again reddit people.