Unlikely non-physical turn-ons

I’ve been texting with a new friend (she’s bi but she has a boyfriend) and while I have no feelings for her, she has this sensual, slightly ethereal way of writing that I find devastatingly attractive.

It feels like we have a mutual intensity and a very natural texting chemistry — I’m currently dating someone too but queer friendships are gonna queer friendship.

My question is: what are some unlikely non-physical turn ons for you lot? Voices can count, but things like emotional intensity and depth of knowledge are what I’m talking about. And people who ask good questions.