Is my relationship with my ex-girlfriend was typical in a woman couple?

Hi everyone! Bisexual woman here (23F).

For the first time, I went in a relationship with a woman (24F), a lesbian. I liked her very much at the beggining. It's after a few weeks that she started to show some issues/caracteristics?

Since day one, she started to think about our future, like how we would live together in an house/appartment. She thought about it so much that it scared me, because I wasn't there yet: I was just enjoying our relationship without thinking about the future. Like she was already thinking about long term commitement: based on how we see each other (we are still with our parent), she would imagine how I would be with her in the future (time together, type of activity, number of time I see my friend, number of time I want to do my own activities, etc).

Then she started showing some signs of anxiety about intimity. I have a lower libido than her (medication), but she was always down for intense kissing or more. She was really clingy honestly. When we were watching a movie or sitting on a couch, she always needed to cuddle me, like big hugs and everything. I don't mind, but I can have a limit of being held thight. I love proximity, like being side-to-side and having a hand on her, but it didn't enough for her.

And kissing... She wanted always to kiss, passionnately. I am not always in the mood for that, and she struggled to accept it (she was really disappointed, which made me feel bad). I tried to adapt to her, to give her more physical touch and everything because I knew she needed that to feel loved, but sometimes, I was almost forcing myself because she was always down and sad if I wasn't.

And really big anxiety issues which are not relevant for my post.

So, after two month, I broke up. I was feeling really pushed, stressed, and the fun was gone, unfortunately. It makes me sad, because I would never thought she was like it.

My question is: are those caracteristic are typical for lesbian? Like thinking way too early about the future and stressing a lot about it, being clingy, anxiety... I read things online and it seems like it is a stereotype of lesbian, but is it really or it was just her?

Thanks for your time!