Super bulky yarn that washes and wears well ?

I want to make the Salacia Beanie on ravelry and while it says bulky, I'm finding it needs super bulky to actually meet gauge. I mostly knit for myself and with handspun wool bc I know how to hand wash, but this is a gift for a friend and I don't want her to accidentally shrink it or need to worry about washing it specially. But my in my experience with millspun super bulky it tends not to last long without pilling. That said I have very little experience with millspun super bulky.

Anyway, I am hoping someone has some yarn recs for a nice soft super bulky, ideally that comes in pastel colors, which washes well and wears for at least a year or two without looking old. Willing to splurge a little on this gift so the price isn't a huge factor.

Can anyone help ?