Venue recommendations near NYC

Hey all! Recently engaged 💍 yay 🤭 My fiancé and I are looking to spend around 35k for about 65 guests. We want to stay in the NYC area but honestly think we’ll get more if we check out Long Island or the Hudson valley or even Jersey. Wondering if anyone has any venue recommendations that are formal- esque but won’t break the bank.

Thank you in advance!