What's wrong with Indian parents?

So, today I heard a very 'unique' situation about a distant relative. Around March, this girl (my very very distant cousin, 26F) got married. (They live in rural area, if that matters anyhow). My cousin's parents were desperate to get her married, she wanted a few more months as she was preparing for government exams. Parents didn't wait, got her engaged and married in 21 days. The groom's family is a bit conservative but they said they will "allow" my cousin to work if she manage the house as well.

So, the second night after their marriage, the groom's mother literally started sleeping inbetween the newlyweds, in their bed. The MIL said my cousin will "snatch" away her son 🫠

Now, my cousin's parents and in-laws are crying as my cousin ran away from her in-laws house to live with her friend in a city, in a different state. From what I know, she is working as cashier and tutoring kids while preparing for government exams.

More than anyone, I blame my cousin's parents trying to ruin her life but she's a champ, she'll come through it all.

A few relatives (my parents included) have offered her financial help but majority of the relatives are criticizing my cousin for running away, that she should have tried to adjust, that's it's been only been few months into the marriage, that things will get better with time. I don't even know what to say to such idiots.