I just need to say this…

The amount of people that support / condone Nick's behavior towards sandy is absolutely INSANE to me. I sometimes scroll their instagrams and the amount of people who support this man is crazy.

Let me start by saying - I understand his addictions and how it can lead to irrational behaviors, but he was absolutely terrifying to Sandy. Whether she made questionable decisions or not, no person ever be expected to take care of an addict. It's clear he was an addict before and while they were dating, and there's no telling to amount of times he blow up, had break downs, or manipulated her in their relationship. I think viewers are confusing "vulnerability" with emotional manipulation and/or addicts who will say and do anything for attention. He was so emotional unstable and he used that to trap Sandy and many of the viewers.

I'm glad he seems to be healing and remaining sober post show - but man, it's crazy how society will expect the most from women and accept the absolute worst from men. And this is coming from a man.