Looking for Rhaegar Wins AU but...

So Rhaegar Wins is probably my favourite AU scenario. It has a lot of potential with a lot of my favourite characters from canon interacting when they never met in canon. But here's the thing, I have a massive hate boner for Rhaegar. At least a Rhaegar that for any reason eloped with Lyanna Stark while having his own wife and kids. That particular version of Rhaegar, dead or alive is probably my most hated character in all of fiction.

Unfortunately, most Rhaegar Wins AU fics that I have read or heard about tend to portray him in a way that frankly makes me sick. Most of them try to justify his actions and write him as a good and competent king while bashing one, a few are all of the leaders of the rebellion as selfish pricks who have been conspiring to overthrow the good and just Targaryen dynasty. Or, they write him as a tragic figure, an incompetent king who wants to do his best but is not very good at being king. All of them have one thing in common and that is that they showed Rhaegar's elopement or kidnapping of Lyanna as something positive and justified. And even when they don't portray it positively, they just never address the pure stupidity and moral reprehensibility of the whole thing.

Moreover, the scenario tends to have a lot of other tropes that I find distasteful, the biggest of which is how Elia and her children are treated. They're written either as submissive and docile, set aside for the sake of ol' dragonwolf Jon Jaehaerys Aemon or whatever name they give him. Or they're written as evil schemers who try to take Jon's rightful throne (which doesn't belong to him in the first place).

Sorry for the rant. It might seem like I don't actually like the scenario as much as I say I do but I do truly think it has a lot of potential. So can anyone give me recs?