If he wanted to he would

I’m not above shooting my shot lol. I dmd this guy in the summer and we started talking, we planned to meet in person. I had planned a grad trip to his city before we started talking. When I was in his city, he didn’t message me with any plans. I went to a couple other cities apart frm his and was in Europe for 2 weeks. He would message me here and there asking me how I liked his city, but never any concrete plans. I later asked him why and he replied saying I looked busy. Granted I traveled to different places and was rlly busy, my stories reflected that😅but I carved out 2 days for him. I wanted him to message me and that didn’t happen. That was the last time we spoke. I think it was all a huge misunderstanding. I just can’t get myself to hit him up again. I rlly like him and idk what to do. Should I message him? Or do you think the “if he wanted to he would” thing applies here. (If I message him it’ll be after Ramadan btw)

Also if ur reading this. Send me an Eid Mubarak text