Anyone else bothered by the Vegas trip?

Working through the Vegas trip episodes and I cannot believe how disgusting and manipulative Zak was to Jen. The show only portrays how angry he got over her going to Chippendales but she doesn’t speak up over him gambling with HER MONEY?? The gaslighting by these guys is absolutely awful. Maybe because I’m looking into this from an outside non-Mormon perspective but it all sounds so hypocritical.