For your relationships that imploded (romantic or otherwise), what tended to be the issues?
I found that my typical issues with ending my contact with people tended to be one of these two things:
They tried to control me. I'm easygoing and often go-with-the-flow, but I grew up with a Capricorn stellium father who was very controlling, and I will never again submit myself to that type of treatment. Because I'm so easy-going, I'll often just let controlling people decide a lot of things before becoming upset. I've had people try to control me so much that they got physical with me before, and I'm DONE DONE if you have an adult temper tantrum trying to control me in any way. This also goes for emotional manipulation and blackmail. I don't care if you are my best friend or family member, I will never give you an ounce of my energy again.
They took advantage of my kindness. I'm a really giving person, really too much in a lot of ways. I will do about anything to help a friend or family member. I've even let people steal from me a little bit, so long as it wasn't large amounts, because I figured they must need it more than me (again, REALLY easy-going). But I will reach a point where you've taken too much from me and you will never get anything else out of me.
I fully understand that a lot of my issue too is I sit back and LET people cross the line, usually without being super explicit that they are, and then I cut them off completely. I don't ghost, I do explain why I'm done with them, but they are usually stunned. Is anyone else like this at all?