RH - Can we have a serious discussion, please?

I'm not here to yuck on anyone's yum but for the convenience of everyone, I ask we clarify what RH actually is.

Harem is one man with a harem of women. Reverse harem is one woman with a harem of men.

Just because you don't care who is with who it doesn't change the fact that RH is one woman with a harem of men and she is the focus. If she isn't, it's not her harem and it's not a reverse harem.

In other words, the fmc needs to be in the focus. She is the center and her harem is focused on her, meaning MM is okay as long as she is the priority. If everyone hooks up with everyone and the fmc isn't a priority, it's not a RH. If a male gets more attention or is the priority, it's not a RH. Again, reverse harem is one woman (the fmc) with multiple men who loves her.

If you want to read only MM, MMM+, MMMMMF, FFFFF or other similar relationship constellations, that's valid and fine. But those are not RH.

The reason I'm writing this is because there's been a lot of posts recently asking for poly romances with various of constellations that is not RH. Again, that is valid and totally fine. But then maybe this sub is not for you? People who prefer poly romances, can you please make your own subreddit? Again, there is absolutely nothing wrong with enjoying what you enjoy but this is a RH sub and book requests have been off topic lately. Please stick to RH or we might as well become a subreddit for any and all book genres. Thank you.