21M: Are there any girls out there who prefer someone their own age?

Hey everyone,

I’ve been using social media for years, but I deleted my accounts last December because I couldn’t find anyone to connect with meaningfully. Recently, I’ve been exploring Reddit, and I’ve noticed a lot of posts where it seems many girls are dating older guys.

It made me wonder: are there still girls who’d like to spend time with someone their own age?

I’m not only talking about dating—I’d love to build a genuine connection. It could be friendship, hanging out, making memories, going for walks, or just having fun together.

If this resonates with anyone, I’d love to hear your perspective. Do girls really lean toward older guys, or is it possible to find someone who values connecting with someone closer to their own age?

Looking forward to your thoughts!