My uncle is 33 years old and he's still chasing govt jobs, i just wanna know how common is it in Rajasthan

I'm just feeling frustrated why most of the Rajasthan youth is wasting their prime years, i myself gonna turn 25 this months and I'm still preparing for ssc and some other teaching exams and from past few days I've just locked myself in a room (coz I'll miss the cgl final cut off by 1, 2 marks,) I'm feeling left behind and what not, i just wanna know the reason, amd I'd like to hear that I'm not alone, also suggestions are welcome