Have you ever felt you dropped your own IQ level to appeal to someone or a group of people?

I’m sorry but I just want to take this moment to vent. Last weekend I hung out with a relative I hadn’t seen in years. Long story short, he had issues and prior to last weekend I thought he was sober. But he’s resorted to drinking. When we hung out, he had some of his friends included as well. These are the wannabe gangbanging type. The way they spoke and the topics they were discussing was so draining to listen to. One of them is following me on Instagram and I follow her back. She’s hitting me up during the week out of the blue asking if I want to meet up right away to drink and smoke, like girl do you not work or go to school