I’m not putting in effort, but get repulsive messages like this. Red flag?

Might not fit the exact nice girl criteria. For some context all she has gone on about is her ex, how I’m not putting in enough effort and that her dad is seeing a young Thai girl half his age. This is what my first message is referring to.

Then she hits me with the message that wasn’t even called for. The toxic femininity is real. Did I dodge a bullet?