is there anything your narc didn’t tear down?

this is my 3rd narc. my first one tore apart my weight like CRAZY. i have such bad body image now because of him.

my latest one made me feel incredibly stupid. i was always dumb and silly. but he never said a thing about my weight. and he knew how much i liked to write. he supported it in the love bombing phase, and then in the devalue stage he never tore it apart. i’m actually grateful for that, because it’s my biggest passion.

what about you guys?