The kind of people narcissists are attracted to.. what kind of person are you ?

I have always heard people say that certain people ‘attract narcs’ I myself seem to be one of those individuals . I am trying to figure out what it is exactly that attracts me to them and v.v Two of the narcs that I have been with have told me they like ‘compromising/submissive’ women and absolutely despise loud mouthed dominating women . I have a quiet and shy personality. How many of you guys who have been stuck in relationships with narcs would also describe yourself as shy and quiet ? Do we give off pushover vibes aka major supply vibes or something ? 😖😖