Tips on feeding my one year old

I’m really struggling with getting my one year old to eat. Hive mind, I need your help!

Breakfast is usually ok, she has weetabix, a piece of toast and banana and happily eats the toast by herself and lets me feed her the weetabix. Lunch and dinner are another story. 9 times out of 10 to get her to eat anything I need to distract her with the iPad. This is not the parent I wanted to be! I didn’t want to be resorting to the screen, but here we are. Typically she’ll refuse the spoon by turning her head away when I try to feed her, and starts shouting & getting frustrated. If I think she’s refusing because she’s not hungry, and take her down from the high chair, there’s a meltdown because she’s hungry. I’ve tried distracting with toys, mixing self feeding with me feeding her, different foods… nothing seems to work consistently.

What am I doing wrong? Is this just a normal phase that we need to ride out?