Are you asking your wife to be your valentine?

I’m curious if any men are still asking there wife’s to be their valentines?

It came up in conversation today, and a guy coworker said “nah she’s my wife I ain’t doing that”

-and honestly it kind of struck me wrong because as a female I believe us women or most women like this type of effort. If it were me I would feel so grateful to be asked by my husband. He doesn’t know this and I doubt he will but I hope women feel loved and wanted as they deserve.