21 with a new Job

I apologise beforehand, my question is probably on the shorter end of the totem pole of finance questions so I appreciate your time

Context

Yes I'm 21, a new new grad earning 2.6k with a take home pay of around 2.2k plus after EPF deductions. For context, I have ASB after successfully getting my bumi title reinstated last year, and 2 Wawasan accounts my parents started since I was a kid.

Since I have started working for 3 months, I had taken 1.5k worth of my net salary, dumbing it in ASB

These 3 accounts total up to just about 50k in savings with my ASB holding 10k as I took out most of my bank savings(also started by my parents when I was a kid) and put it in there leaving 4k for my own use.

To summarise ASB- 10k~ Wawasan 1 and 2- 40k~ Personal bank account- 4k~

My spending habits

Not much tbh, I don't need much, I have sufficient clothes, I have no expensive hobbies, I am introverted by heart so I don't go out much, my biggest expense is probably my girlfriend, where I can spend up to 200~ monthly on dates

My family is a modest one, we live comfortably in an apartment, we drive Protons, we eat at home and once a week outside, once a while we go for buffets just for the fun of it.

My mom and dad pay for my insurance, I have insisted to take on that responsibility but they wish me not to, telling to wait ABIT longer till I'm stable and on my feet.

To summarise Girlfriend- 200~ Treating myself- 50~ Gas money- 100~

My aim

I don't ask for much, I just want the finances for a house, to raise a family, Proton cars are fine, at most probably Toyota's or Honda's. What I really want, is the spending power for food, so I can look at the price tag of a slightly better quality ice cream, or a piece of good steak and not care, obviously not everytime, but once or twice a month at least. I would hope that this is achievable by the age of 28-30. Then again having more than that is always good.

The Juicy bit

I have an investment/insurance plan my mother had bought for me since birth, but my parents had not updated and thus for the amount paid of 277/month it has very very poor amount coverage, not enough for modern medical bills. I will be surrendering it, and total cash value is around RM 50k~, I plan to dumb it in ASB, but now I'm asking here

So, my question, is ASB a suitable way to grow my cash? What are the alternatives so I can diversify? Playing stocks I would rather not as an option, I had tried before with 500 ringgit, though I was ready to lose it, I ended up with a 72% profit to loss, but even then i stressed over it, so would rather avoid it