Why do ppl in here keep saying everything is normal?

Gonna get downvoted. yesterday or at least a few days ago someone made a post saying that it is not important that celebrities/influencers a few years ago made racist tweets because “now they probably have changed”, and in the comments ppl said that it is normal to have had a racist phase?? Then someone made a post on blake lively about the fact that she said she would like to have daughters, or that if they are not females it will be better that they are trannies (English is not my first language but I know it is generally an offensive term)

And everyone says that people are too sensitive or that it's nothing. personally I'm not following the whole controversy on blake lively and I agree that sometimes people stick to everything to cancel someone else, but wtf? saying that it is normal to have racist phases, or that “in those years it was normal to use certain terms”, is just weird. this sub is simply starting to become weird and screams privileged. you guys keep saying that you want to talk about the bad actions of celebs/influencers, but then the moment someone talks abt it these are the reactions. if this is your “normality”, the “normality” is worrying.

it’s always “y’all are too sensitive” but never “y’all normalize everything”