The difference of the judgement of male and female Muslim content creators

I really want to become a content creator on tiktok and youtube but as a hijabi I am sooo scared of the hate I will get.. from muslims. Honestly I am not worried about hate from non muslims, some how I know I will get mor share and judgement from other muslims specifically men.

If you check any muslim girl's social media you will se these random men bashing them for anything and every thing as small as showing a bit of her neck or fricking wearing trousers or having the audacity to be friendly or even talk to men. None of this translates to men. Oh my gosh, even the pregnant woman who got soo much hate for showing her pregnant belly and counting the weeks because these 'muslims' zoomed in to the picture 100× just to see the faintest outline of her chest and the dirty minded ones talking about 'putting it in raw'. These disgusting men were clearly bot even the target audience.

For example; an animation youtuber called The Amaazing (I love his videos) he usualy jokes about some things that are not exactly traditionally islamic and he even says he has a more liberal view on things which I totally agree with. Then we also have fricking Andrew Tate who I dont think I have seen a single Muslim man hating on him for his mysogyiny and alpha Male nonsense which is definitely not halal. It seems some men adore him for some reason. There are obviously others that who I can think of.

I want to create content to express myself and other stuff but I am scared if being bombarded by these muslim men bullying me. As I see them on other womens pages I get so disappointed and I understand why some people dont see the beauty if the religion.

Tl Dr; why are some muslim men so terrible to muslim women and not to other men of social media? What can I do to get over it as a not so traditional muslim content creator?

Edit; thanks so much for your advice everyone!! I will definitely try to follow it.